Child

Like any thinking being, your child comes here to evolve, to become an independent thinking unit of creation.

Or do you think he's evolving to become a lawyer, for example? Guys, no offense, but what being in his right mind would want to be a lawyer? Or a real estate agent, for God's sake? Think about it, where is the fun, where is the knowledge of the world through the knowledge of yourself? You are a miracle, just like your child. Realize that.

Observe yourself, and do not prevent your child from observing himself and learning about the world. He is still capable of thinking directly. That is, to use the process of thinking without purpose, as a flow, as creativity. Let him think and do not rush him. It's your life that has already passed, his is just beginning.

For you do not know why you are here, why you exist for only one reason: you didn't think. Give that opportunity to your child. And let him choose. You didn't give him the freedom to choose. Your child is not really yours, if that's understood. He's his own.

Don't let your child miss out on all the fun. Trust me, life, as you call your existence, is not about that. Everything a child does, like you, is exploring its levels of freedom. To you, the child is an alien. He doesn't understand what you do. And you don't understand what he does and why. Why. Observe him. And for God's sake, leave your egoism alone. Observe sincerely, with all your attention. He, unlike you, is still free from social norms and laws, from official "education". Don't care about society if it hinders your development. 

He doesn't understand why his dad and mom go to work. Why they leave him with strangers. Hey, parents, wait till your kid's mind is stronger. Let his being look around. Protect him from the bad influences of society. It's not education and learning social norms that he needs, he needs you.. Grown up, wise, developed, beautiful, free and responsible, strong in spirit. That's it! Oh, what was I saying?

It is your job to earn your child's respect. Earn it, not impose it. He doesn't understand what you say, but he sees what you do and how you do it.

Observe the child, let him show his nature. Let him develop. Talk to him, play with him. Love him. Respect him.

He's testing the world and his capabilities. He wants to grow up. Unlike you, he doesn't want to be a child. Neither do you. You, like him, want to be a thinking unit of creation. No less. It's a very ambitious goal, believe me.

Will, concentration, mindfulness, mindfulness, mastery of the body, mercy, love, proper understanding of freedom and responsibility, how to gain greater freedom. Respect for other people's choices and experiences. These are all things that are needed. But it's not easy to understand, much less fulfill.

Observe him, share your thoughts with him, enthuse him with your love, listen to him. Speak to him as an equal. He is as much a creature of God as you are. He is not the continuation of your kind.in the sense that you mean it. And don't let his grandfather's nose mislead you.

There is still a reality living in him that you have long ago hammered into your selfishness. He deserves your attention. Do you realize that? Believe me, there are a lot of interesting things in the world besides Hollywood. For example, do you know what the most interesting thing is? It's you. Yes, yes, you. Your being. Don't confuse that with your ego, please. Selfishness is just about the most boring, limited and dreary thing in the world. And you should try to grow out of it as soon as possible.

Explore yourself and give your child the opportunity to explore themselves. Knowing the world begins with knowing yourself, not the other way around. Through each other. It is a dialog of conscious beings to learn about creation and their place in it. Creation has no social norms. There is only freedom, conditioned by development and responsibility, and creativity. Creation is supremely unselfish. All of its attention is for you. Its entire being is for you. Explore, learn, evolve.

The baby's crying, demanding. And you? He wants things all the time, don't you? Who, for example, do you want your children to become? Why? Why should this God's creature understand that it is necessary to learn physics or foreign languages? Or behavioral norms? Or learn to read? Are you sure you've mastered this art yourself? I mean, are you sure you can read? What do you want him to do? And then you're surprised at their protest and "disobedience"?

The young being has his own goals and objectives, his own experiences. He knows what he wants. Don't interfere. Give him space and time to think. Listen to him. You can't hear yourself, can you? Love him. Wait, do you love yourself? Respect him. Oh, well, that's probably a no-go. Have you learned to respect anything other than your own interests?

Unlike you, he is still trying, hitting, tearing, bumping and falling, crying and then laughing a second later. You have long since stopped, irresponsibly living your lives in a haze of ridiculous illusion and other people's thoughts.

In your child, as in you, is manifested, alive. undeveloped spirit. Help him to get developed and become a thinking being, a thinking unit of creation, the beginning of all things. He longs for it.

Explain your behavior to your child, but don't expect him to understand. It is your choice, not his. Listen to what he thinks about it. Maybe he'll tell you something useful and interesting. Although, maybe solving crossword puzzles and drawing formulas on the blackboard is more interesting to you....

Do not look for allies in society. Your society is a society of irresponsible egoists, people who project their own interests onto the will of others. Just as you project your interests onto the will of your children. These underdeveloped and selfish creatures of God will grab your attention at the first opportunity and use you. Don't let them do it. Go out and close the door. Close it well. Close it tight so no sound can get in. Don't look back so you don't blow your nose. Let them eat each other in their eternal drama. It's their choice. They missed the point. They're over the event horizon. That's not what reality is about.

Reality is about love.